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wrong: my husband passed away Oct.27,2017.his funeral was Nov.2,2017. he received a disability

my husband passed away Oct.27,2017.his funeral was Nov.2,2017. he received a disability check the 3rd. of each from social security that was on auto deposit.all are bills are on auto pay so when the money went in the bills were automatically paid. social security says they want the money back because he died before Nov.1st .4 days now that's just wrong .it took 14 years to get his disability .they gave him 5 years back pay.what happened to the other 9 years? but they want me to repay $1200.00 that i don't have.its seems that every time someone is getting picked on by the government its senior citizens,the poor, widows ,and homeless.people. i haven't gotten over losing him and now i have to worry about this.
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prayers for steve: i am in need of prayers for my husband steve he is so sick they have machines breathing

i am in need of prayers for my husband steve he is so sick they have machines breathing for him.i love him so much .i don't know how to help him .i don't know if i can live without him and i don't want to try.so if you could take a min.to pray for him i would appreciate it.
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help: really need help .i'm in need of a hospital bed ,bed pan ,adult potty seat and tray for

really need help .i'm in need of a hospital bed ,bed pan ,adult potty seat and tray for hospital bed. my husband is bed ridden and i have problems lifting him. so anything would be helpful
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problems: i have come to the conclusion that i live a pitiful life . i can't sleep because i get ate

i have come to the conclusion that i live a pitiful life . i can't sleep because i get ate up by bed bugs and i can't open my drawers and cabinets because i get bomb barded by roaches and are landlord won't do anything about it. my husband is sick and getting sicker.he won't eat ,he can barley walk .medicare is not paying 80% of his medical bills and i have lawyers and collection agency calling all hours of the day and night.no one will help .unless ur a drug addict .we are just seniors .we applied for food stamps they gave us a whole $16.00 that doesn't even pay for that ensure .i'm about to crawl in a hole and hide.
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prayers: there are so many out there that are homeless i have been there done that .you have my

there are so many out there that are homeless i have been there done that .you have my prayers and i hope something good comes to you soon.
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blessings small and large: hello out there. well its been a while.good news after 14 long years my husband

hello out there. well its been a while.good news after 14 long years my husband finally got his disability approved.but of course now his heath is so bad we spent most of it in doctors ,meds ect.but i guess it is what it is .they didn't pay him for the entire 14 years .hell they didn't pay him for 1/8 of the 14 years .but were glade he got something it helped. i guess you have to count your blessings as they come.
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all of these Americans with no hope .and our government is shipping people into this

all of these Americans with no hope .and our government is shipping people into this country and giving them a new life.it is just heart breaking and not fair.
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i have a friend whose daughter does not have a place to live .she has a four children and

i have a friend whose daughter does not have a place to live .she has a four children and a new born.she is going from motel to motel .she works and is trying her best .social services won't help. i'm trying to find a way to help her. does anyone have any ideas?
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I don't understand this page: what are you talking about

what are you talking about
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question: makes you wonder how many seniors are homeless does it?

makes you wonder how many seniors are homeless does it?
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hard times are getting harder.: we live on fixed income .rent$650 a month ,lights 252 a month,water 169 a

we live on fixed income .rent$650 a month ,lights 252 a month,water 169 a month we have 710 a month to live off of.we are still trying to get his disability approved .we've been trying since 2001.and still they deny him. the man has a broken neck, breathing problems ,nerve damage, hearing problems, depression .trouble with standing for any amount of time an sitting with any amount of time ,he hasn't had a full nights sleep since his accident in oct.2001
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so far in the hole can't get out.i no ur pain: my water turned off ,my lights will go next. help there is

my water turned off ,my lights will go next. help there is none .but for food try food banks in your area .
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alone sad unhappy: what do you do when every day of your life is sad and unhappy.i can't rember when i was

what do you do when every day of your life is sad and unhappy.i can't rember when i was happy last.
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hi everyone .i hope everyone is having a nice summer.

hi everyone .i hope everyone is having a nice summer.
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weather: wow its cold

wow its cold
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feed up: does anyone no how miserable it is to live with someone who lives to make everyone as

does anyone no how miserable it is to live with someone who lives to make everyone as miserable as he is.my god .i just want to scream .he just picks and picks .no one can come to visit.my kids are grown and won't come near this house.not even on mothers day.i hate living like this.i'm sad all the time and i'm angry.there are times i hate him .but then i r ember all he's been through .he only gets 2 or 3 hrs. sleep a night .that been happening now for almost 11 years. i soon don't get a brake i'm going to loose my mind .what little i have left .i made chile tonight for supper and all he can do is complain.nothing i cook is good enough and nothing i do right and everything that goes wrong is my fault .i'm so tired of living like this.
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its hard when u just hold it inside.i was just outside and noticed theirs a full moon

its hard when u just hold it inside.i was just outside and noticed theirs a full moon .that's bad news it means all the crazy's r out.things just get worse during a full moon.
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pain: well everyone has a breaking point and i think i've reached mine.i just can't take anymore

well everyone has a breaking point and i think i've reached mine.i just can't take anymore crap.as i've told you my husband broke his neck in 2001.and then about a year ago he had three strokes. social security is still denying his claim .he has been through alot. .and i no that he has been in pain a long time .he has nerve damage in his upper body from the broken neck ,he can't hardly sleep,he can't work .he has problems holding on to things ,not counting the fact that he he has headaches all the time and suffers from memory lose and mood swings .i feel helpless .there is nothing i can do to help .we are going futher into the hole. we have lost everything.but i don't no how much more i can take he's mean and hateful .he calls people names and talks to me and everyone else like we are not human.i'm tired .i'm 58 years old and in the last eleven years i have been through total hell. how much of this do i have to deal with.he doesn't understand that we hurt to.everything is about him. i swear he hates everyone land everything .i could just pull my hair out. he just sits and calls me name and complains about everything .the man has no compassion what so ever .he drinks beer to numb the pain .he would take the food right out of my mouth to get a beer.he just doesn't care any more.i have done without my medicine so i could get his for his blood pressure meds and his other meds. its stll not good enough for him. we have little to no income and are constantly waiting for bill collectors to turn of the lights ,water and phone .he blames all this on me. i think he's losing his mind.i don't no what to do.
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its very colorful

its very colorful
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concerned: just wondering how aprilrain is doing ? you were pretty down.hope you are a feeling better

just wondering how aprilrain is doing ? you were pretty down.hope you are a feeling better
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